How to use our Instant Chat Messages (*)

• If you like to participate in public chats, or in 1 to 1 chats with individual members, we recommened you keep your chat window open at all times (via the link 'Public Chat' in the left hand menu.
• All listed members with the black chat icon are happy to receive your request to chat (click on the CHAT icon).
• Listed members with the grey chat icon do not wish to receive chat requests, or have not subscribed to do so. 
• If you want to join a chat session, please open your chat window via the 'Public Chat' in the left hand menu.
• To initiate a private chat with another member, you will both have to have your chat window open.
• To receive a private chat request from another member, please have your chat window open.
• I just can’t get my chat pop-ups to work
• It is possible to have your name removed from this list. To do so, please change your Privacy Settings.

Note: Getalife is not just a chat site - plenty of those around. Getalife offers unique tools to organise and join any activitiy you want, and to meet people in real life. Our chat tools are there to break the ice, or exchange information prior to an event.

If you wish to contact a member, you can also send him or her a message or invitation via their Member Profile.